When you come across an amazing woman, there is a very high chance that she has no shortage of men to choose from. This is a dilemma many of us single guys run into. So what to do? The secret is to make yourself stand out from the masses. Find ways to differentiate yourself and impress her. We like to show you how to do that on PUA Forum. See part of the secret to doing this is realizing that impressing a girl doesn’t take things you might initially suspect. It doesn’t take movie star looks, money or a nice car.
It takes things that money can’t buy, such as confidence, attitude and demeanor. Here are a few ways you can act that will help you learn how to impress a girl.
* Be confident. Make a list of what makes you unique and special and read it to yourself every day, five times a day if necessary until you believe it. Having confidence is the realization that you are an individual different from anybody else in the world and worthy of a great girl.
* Don’t try to impress her. The most intriguing things about you should unfold over time. For instance, if you have an amazing penthouse loft in New York City, I wouldn’t even take a girl there until you’ve had three to four dates. Then when you do, it will blow her mind. You never bragged about it, making you a million times cooler in her eyes.
Likewise, if you have famous friends or an amazing job or are super smart – anything that makes you really stand out, don’t say a word. Eventually this cool thing will come to light and you will seem even cooler for not bragging about it.
* Be a gentleman. Hold doors, compliment her, be polite, and so on. Look for ideas on How To Talk To A Girl. But especially don’t rush anything physically. Take your sweet time. Haven’t you ever heard that the best things in life are worth waiting for? In this case, it is so true. She will be impressed. In addition, you will be happier and more satisfied in the end. As an added side bonus, you will stand out from the crowd and if she is a hot chick, you want to differentiate yourself from the masses of men falling at her feet. This is one great way to do so. It will also ignite her curiosity about you. It creates a bit of a sense of mystery, which is always necessary for sparks to fly.
* Relax. Take everything in life with a grain of salt except the most important things in life that money can’t buy such as health and family. Everything else is no big deal. Develop this carefree, nonchalant attitude that shows you know how to truly appreciate the important things in life and don’t stress out about things that won’t matter in the long run.
So remember, if you want to impress a girl, you first have to look inward. It is what inside that will impress her more than anything on the outside.
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