Seduce With Eye Contact

Seduce With Eye Contact

Do you remember the first time you met and you didn’t need to say a word and the sparks were flying? It was all about looking into each other’s eyes and feeling that mutual attraction. Maybe you and your girl have lost that spark or maybe you are a single guy who wants to find that attraction with a mystery woman out there. I’m here to tell you that it is all about eye contact.



It doesn’t matter if you met two seconds or twenty years ago, having strong and powerful eye contact can be the difference between dull and divine. Do you really know how to look at a woman? Even little girls learn that a smoldering glance is what men do when they learn How To Pick Up Women. Case in point: the recent release of the Disney movie Tangled where the male love interest tries to woo Rapunzel with his smolder. In that case, it didn’t work, but that was only because she had been locked in a tower for 18 years and he was the first man she had seen.

However, most women respond to eye contact. It gives them shivers. It makes them feel wanted and special. Therefore, even if it is your wife of 25 years or your new girlfriend, using solid eye contact is a surefire way to attract a woman and make her feel special. I’m not talking creepy staring. I’m talking prolonged, meaningful eye contact that just gets you right there. It's the easiest and most effective way in you want to know How To Seduce A Girl.

Many relationship advice books actually recommend that couples turn off the television during dinner and sit and talk and maintain eye contact. Other books say that even a few meaningful seconds of eye contact in the morning before each partner goes off to work, can make the relationship spicier when they get back together later in the day.

Eye contact cannot be underestimated. If it is not used correctly, the gorgeous, amazing woman who is waiting for you to approach her will think you aren’t interested because you will not make eye contact with her. She may even seek attention from someone else figuring that because you won’t make eye contact with her, you just aren’t interested.

If you like a girl, look her deep in the eyes. In order to avoid coming across as weird or creepy. I would suggest you practice making eye contact in the mirror first. Figure out what kind of look and just how long it should be so it is sexy, not strange. Then practice making eye contact with everyone you know.

The simple act of meeting someone’s eyes during conversation conveys confidence, charisma and authority. Just by one simple change in your habits, you will appear as a poised person with tons of self-esteem. That’s a pretty easy adjustment to make, isn’t it?

So if you are on the prowl to meet a one-night stand, the girl of your dreams, your future wife or are just trying to revive your long-term relationship with your girl, don’t forget to spice it up with a little eye contact.

Get A Girl’s Number

Get A Girl’s Number

I’m not sure why getting a girl’s number can be such a stumbling block for so many people. This topic seems to come up a lot on my Pick Up Forum. I actually wonder if it’s because some guys put so much importance on it. Really, it is just one step of many in meeting and dating awesome women. It’s not the end all.



With that said, there is a lot of pressure that builds up when guys realize they must get a girl’s number if they have any chance of seeing this particular woman again. Otherwise, she might be lost to the masses forever. Now, the first thing you need to do is take all that pressure off one woman. So what if she gets away? There are other fish in the sea. If you have the attitude that this girl is the end all, be all, you are already setting yourself up for failure.

Therefore, that’s the first step – realize that she’s just a person as if you are and has faults just like the rest of us. Realize that you can’t make her into this amazing thing without spending a whole lot more time than one evening speaking to her.

OK, so let’s assume you’ve followed this advice and removed the girl from her pedestal. You think she is really cool, but still aren’t sure she’s the right one for you. You’d like to spend more time together to find out if you really do get along. That’s the attitude you must have and that’s the attitude you must convey to her. In fact, you can even say something along those lines.
You can tell her you think she’s cool and want to get to know her better.

You also can avoid that and just go to step B, which is what I usually do. Here’s how it works. It is simple, honest and effective. I probably have hooked up with thirty girls using this method. It is easy and works.
Here is what you do: Tell her to give you her phone. Then put your number in it. You can put a funny name like “Bill cute guy at bar” or something else funny.

There are a few other things you could do. You can hand her your phone and then call her on her own phone. Talk to her in a joking way while looking right at her. That way she has your number, you have hers and your set.

Later on, after I leave the bar or club or party, I often like to shoot her a quick text. I usually just say something very short. Please, avoid ridiculously long, drawn-out, boring texts. Instead, say something such as “Cool meeting you. See you soon.” If you don't know what to say you better learn How To Text A Girl.

You don’t have to throw up every emotion you feel about her, but you should let her know that you like her and are thinking of her. Trust me, girls dig this. And if she doesn’t like something like that, then trust me again, she is not into you and at that point, there is nothing you can do to change it.

Get A Girlfriend

Get A Girlfriend

If you’ve been practicing your game, you might be a pro at picking up girls. You might be the ultimate PUA. You might even be a rock star at getting a girl to come back to your place with you. However, the true test is if you can make a girl so crazy about you, she wants to be yours and yours alone.



It takes a bit more effort to get a girlfriend instead of just a date, but the payoff is worth it. There is nothing better than having a great girlfriend who will be there for you through thick and thin. I love dating amazing women, but part of the fun is finding the perfect girl to make my own. I just like being exclusive. You can spend your energy on enjoying each other’s company rather than wasting time talking to people who don’t just float your boat.

After all, sometimes after a hard week, all we want to do is grab some take out, crack open a bottle of wine and spend some time either watching the game or getting to know each other by candlelight. There is nothing better.
If you want to learn How To Get A Girlfriend, you had better take a good hard look at yourself and what your expectations are. You should also make a list of your positive attributes and your negative ones.

Look at these pluses and minuses in the context of a relationship. Using past relationships and problems you have encountered is a good starting point.

You might find that at least two of your past relationships haven’t worked out because of jealousy. There is two ways to look at this. It could be that you picked girls who flirted outrageously and maybe weren’t the kind of girls you could trust. Alternatively, it could be that you have your own issues with jealousy, even when dating the most trustworthy girl on the planet. Determine which of the two cases apply to you and then figure out how to handle it.

For instance, if you aren’t normally a jealous guy and you know this, then you were probably picking the wrong girls. Step two of this process is to make a list of what you are looking for in a girl and in a relationship. In this case, you should put on your list that you don’t want a flirt and that you need to have a girlfriend with good morals whom you could trust.

If it is the second example, then you need to deal with your jealousy issues now, before you even begin to look for a girlfriend.

As I mentioned before, step two is to make a very thoughtful and thorough list of characteristics of a girlfriend and qualities you want in a relationship. Categorize it by “Deal Breakers” and “Negotiables.”
So for instance, you might have “trustworthy” under “deal breakers” meaning that this trait is so important to you that if the girl isn’t this way, you will break it off, no matter how wonderful she might be in other areas.

A “negotiable” might be something like “lives close.” You might decide this isn’t a make it or break it issue.
Therefore, if you want a girlfriend, the most important first steps are to write down what you want and what you don’t want before you even begin the search.

Secrets on How to Impress A Girl

Secrets on How to Impress A Girl

When you come across an amazing woman, there is a very high chance that she has no shortage of men to choose from. This is a dilemma many of us single guys run into. So what to do? The secret is to make yourself stand out from the masses. Find ways to differentiate yourself and impress her. We like to show you how to do that on PUA Forum. See part of the secret to doing this is realizing that impressing a girl doesn’t take things you might initially suspect. It doesn’t take movie star looks, money or a nice car.



It takes things that money can’t buy, such as confidence, attitude and demeanor. Here are a few ways you can act that will help you learn how to impress a girl.

* Be confident. Make a list of what makes you unique and special and read it to yourself every day, five times a day if necessary until you believe it. Having confidence is the realization that you are an individual different from anybody else in the world and worthy of a great girl.

* Don’t try to impress her. The most intriguing things about you should unfold over time. For instance, if you have an amazing penthouse loft in New York City, I wouldn’t even take a girl there until you’ve had three to four dates. Then when you do, it will blow her mind. You never bragged about it, making you a million times cooler in her eyes.

Likewise, if you have famous friends or an amazing job or are super smart – anything that makes you really stand out, don’t say a word. Eventually this cool thing will come to light and you will seem even cooler for not bragging about it.

* Be a gentleman. Hold doors, compliment her, be polite, and so on. Look for ideas on How To Talk To A Girl. But especially don’t rush anything physically. Take your sweet time. Haven’t you ever heard that the best things in life are worth waiting for? In this case, it is so true. She will be impressed. In addition, you will be happier and more satisfied in the end. As an added side bonus, you will stand out from the crowd and if she is a hot chick, you want to differentiate yourself from the masses of men falling at her feet. This is one great way to do so. It will also ignite her curiosity about you. It creates a bit of a sense of mystery, which is always necessary for sparks to fly.

* Relax. Take everything in life with a grain of salt except the most important things in life that money can’t buy such as health and family. Everything else is no big deal. Develop this carefree, nonchalant attitude that shows you know how to truly appreciate the important things in life and don’t stress out about things that won’t matter in the long run.

So remember, if you want to impress a girl, you first have to look inward. It is what inside that will impress her more than anything on the outside.

How to Not Get Dumped

How to Not Get Dumped

Some guys have all the luck. And some guys don’t have any luck at all. I have friends that perpetually have bad luck with women. It is a vicious cycle that happens over and over again. They meet an amazing woman and they are in seventh heaven for a few weeks. Then, sure enough I get a call. I know before they even open their mouths what it is about: they got dumped. I can’t quite figure out. I happen to think they are great guys, but for some reason, they just don’t last in a relationship.

I’ve done my own informal studies trying to figure out just why some of my friends have amazing girlfriends -- they are usualy my PUA friends -- and how come others can’t keep a girl around to save their life. After speaking to many of them, I came up with my own unscientific conclusions on what makes a girl stick around and what doesn’t. I could probably write a book on it all at this point, but I’m just going to share some of the key factors that seem to lead to men getting dumped.

Here are the top few of them:

1. Maintain your hygiene. We guys douse on the cologne, polish our shoes and iron our clothes when we are on the prowl for women, but then as soon as we get a girl, we throw on dirty clothes from the hamper, don’t comb our hair or shave and don’t even bother to shower before a date. Don’t get too comfortable. You’ll hear me say this a few times. Shower, shave, etc. as if it were your first date. Do this every time you get together. Married couples who have been together for 50 years will tell you this matters.

2. Have good manners. Just because she’s your girlfriend doesn’t mean you can leave the bathroom door open when you do your business and let her hear and smell every minute. You still have to remember the rules on How To Get A Girlfriend. It also doesn’t mean farting, burping, and letting the door slam on her. Be sure you maintain your manners and treat her as if you just met.

3. Don’t be a pushover. Even if you have decided she is the love of your life – actually especially if she is – do everything in your power to maintain your own life and your own personality. Otherwise, if you agree with everything she says and don’t have opinions, you become a pushover and not the person she fell for in the first place.

4. Make her feel special. Always make an effort to appreciate her. In other words, don’t take her for granted. Don’t assume that she’s always going to be there for you. Don’t get too comfortable. Stay on our toes. Surprise her with little notes or texts or calls to let you know you are thinking about her. All of these things keep the relationship fresh.

5. Be reliable. Be where you say you are going to be when you say you are going to be there. Easy enough.

How to Meet Women at Clubs

How to Meet Women at Clubs

It is Friday night and you deserve a night on the town. You’ve worked hard all week and now you are ready to cut loose, have a drink, maybe dance a bit and definitely laugh a lot. And you are really ready to meet some amazing women tonight and possibly make one of them part of
the rest of your weekend.



The first thing you do is decide where to go and round up some friends to make sure the evening will be jumping. You’ve decided on a hot new club that always has gorgeous women, good drinks and great music and arrange to meet your friends there at 10. After you go home and take a quick nap, eat a light dinner and have a beer in front of the television, you are ready to start your night.

Here are three tips from the Pick Up Forum
that can help you have an amazing night and meet women when you get to the club.

Get pumped up. Now the thing about this suggestion is that different people get pumped up by different activities. You have to figure out what works for you. I can give you a few ideas that either me or my friends use to get in the mood to go out and rip it up. My buddy likes to do sit ups. I like to crank some good tunes and bounce around my apartment. Another friend of mine sticks in his favorite movie, “Dumb and Dumber” and spends two hours laughing is butt off so he is in a great mood when he leaves his house. Another friend of mine is into martial arts and so he might do some warm up moves or even some quiet meditation in his room to get himself ready to go out and have a good time. Figure out what gets you in a good mood and ready to go out and make sure you set aside some time to do it early in the evening – or preferably, right before you walk out your door.

Change your expectations. What I mean by this is that I want you to make your goal for the night something different than practicing How To Meet Women. If you make that your only goal you are going to have a tough time of it. What my friends and I have found that works is to make our goal very simple: having fun with each other. And what is so surprising is that it works like magic to attract women. In reality, it just makes sense. When we are having fun, laughing and joking around, we are instantly charismatic. Everyone wants to talk to us and have fun with us. It is contagious. So change your goal in order to get your goal – meeting a hot girl.

Look sharp. Now too many guys take this simple tip for granted. I don’t care if it costs half your paycheck and you don’t buy another clothing item for six months, I want you to invest in at least one outfit that makes you look like a rock star. Take your time in choosing it. Ask for advice from experienced sales clerks or stylish women friends. Buy a flattering shirt that fits you perfectly. Buy some great jeans – the right ones can take 20 pounds off your frame. Spend the bulk of this wardrobe money on some really cool stylish shoes that will be in style for the next decade. Don’t underestimate what your clothes say about you and their ability to attract women.

If you follow these tips, you are more than halfway there to having an amazing night and meeting cool girls

Do You Need A Wingman?

Do You Need A Wingman?

If you want to meet women, then you need to get out there and show that you are the type of guy who has friends, who knows what women want and who likes to have a good time.

You can do all of these things by finding a wingman to go out with when you are looking or women. You and your wingman don’t have to have much in common besides the shared inclination to have a good time and the desire to meet women.

You can easily find a wingman on a Pick Up Forum or even on other local networking websites. Here are just a few tip-of-the-iceberg reasons why it helps to have a wingman in your corner.

Do you want to seem like a loser or loner?

I tend to think that no matter how cool you are, if you go on the prowl to a bar or club all by yourself, you just sort of look like a weirdo. Even if you’re not. I don’t think it’s a good idea to pick up women when you are all alone, unless the pick up takes place as you go about your daily business. But going to a bar by yourself and then trying to learn How To Meet Women sort of makes you look like a loser. And here’s the thing about loners – it’s perfectly acceptable to be one, but the girl doesn’t need to know that until you are already dating. Then it will seem coo. Before she knows you, it just seems weird.

Do you need to learn what works with women?

If you pick a wingman that is experienced, he can show you what works with women and what doesn’t. It is best to find a wingman that isn’t brand new to pick up and who can teach you some sure-fire tips and techniques to meeting and being successful with women. Then, one day, you can turn around and be someone else’s wingman. Even when you are a successful pick up artist one day, you will still want to find someone to hang out with when you go out and so you can return the favor to some newbie.

Do you want to have a good time no matter what?

I think the best approach to meeting and picking up women is to make sure the main goal of your night out is to have a good time. When you and your wingman go out, be sure to make this goal number one. It always works by making you seem like a fun, laid back guy, which then attracts women like bees to honey. You see having fun and enjoying yourself is magnetic and charismatic. People want to hang out with you. And the beauty of it is that you are having a great time even if you don’t meet any women.

So if you want to have a good time, meet women and come across as social, fun and charismatic, check into finding a wingman to guide you through the pick up process and maybe, as an added benefit, you will make new friend.

Ten Places to Meet Girls

Ten Places to Meet Girls

Despite what you might think the easiest way to meet a girl is not at a bar or club. There is a lot of expectation and a lot of competition when meeting girls at a bar or club. It is a fake environment that often puts people on guard and causes them to put up a wall around them, making it hard for two people to interact in a real way.

I’ve found if you want to meet a girl and have any chance of a lasting relationship – or even a first date – you would be better off meeting her somewhere outside of the typical bar and club scene. Here are some of the best places my Pick Up Artist friends and I in New York City have found for meeting women.

1. On the street. It says funny to say that, but if you live in an area like I do, where everybody walks everywhere, the street is truly the number one best place to meet girls. I can’t tell you how many women I’ve stopped in the street to get their phone number as they are walking by. If you don’t live in an area that has a lot of people out walking, then you can go find places like that, for instance at an outdoor shopping area or even walking around the inside of a big indoor mall.
2. At the gym. If you really want to meet girls, I suggest you join a gym and start signing up for classes. Sometimes classes traditionally geared toward women are a great place to strike up a conversation.
3. The market. There is a grocery store near the university and it is full of young single people every Sunday night. It is easy enough to begin a casual conversation over the best brand of cereal.
4. The bookstore. I like bookstores because the women who frequent them are usually of higher than average intelligence, which is always a plus in my book. Especially if you are trying to figure out How To Get A Girlfriend.
5. The library. Same idea as the bookstore and sometimes even cooler chicks are library goers.
6. Clothing stores. I particularly like to meet women at vintage clothing shops or thrift stores – I like these types of girls, but you might find your dream girl hangs out at American Eagle or Victoria’s Secret, if you have the guts to go in there!
7. Coffee shops. Another one of my favorite places to meet girls. It is very easy and natural to strike up a conversation in an environment such as a café or coffee shop.
8. Museums. It doesn’t matter what type of museum, whether it is one geared toward art, science or history, these are great venues to meet girls.
9. A college class. I don’t care if you have a Ph.D.; it never hurts to sign up for a college class to meet girls. It makes you more interesting, as well, if you are studying a foreign language or stained glass or literature, and is a great way to expand your social circle and meet girls.
10. Anywhere you might volunteer. If you want to expand your social circle and meet women, start finding places to volunteer. Maybe help build houses for Habitat for Humanity or work in a soup kitchen. You will meet girls with a little more depth in these environments, too, which is always a bonus.