Friday, February 18, 2011

Do You Need A Wingman?

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Do You Need A Wingman?

If you want to meet women, then you need to get out there and show that you are the type of guy who has friends, who knows what women want and who likes to have a good time.

You can do all of these things by finding a wingman to go out with when you are looking or women. You and your wingman don’t have to have much in common besides the shared inclination to have a good time and the desire to meet women.

You can easily find a wingman on a Pick Up Forum or even on other local networking websites. Here are just a few tip-of-the-iceberg reasons why it helps to have a wingman in your corner.

Do you want to seem like a loser or loner?

I tend to think that no matter how cool you are, if you go on the prowl to a bar or club all by yourself, you just sort of look like a weirdo. Even if you’re not. I don’t think it’s a good idea to pick up women when you are all alone, unless the pick up takes place as you go about your daily business. But going to a bar by yourself and then trying to learn How To Meet Women sort of makes you look like a loser. And here’s the thing about loners – it’s perfectly acceptable to be one, but the girl doesn’t need to know that until you are already dating. Then it will seem coo. Before she knows you, it just seems weird.

Do you need to learn what works with women?

If you pick a wingman that is experienced, he can show you what works with women and what doesn’t. It is best to find a wingman that isn’t brand new to pick up and who can teach you some sure-fire tips and techniques to meeting and being successful with women. Then, one day, you can turn around and be someone else’s wingman. Even when you are a successful pick up artist one day, you will still want to find someone to hang out with when you go out and so you can return the favor to some newbie.

Do you want to have a good time no matter what?

I think the best approach to meeting and picking up women is to make sure the main goal of your night out is to have a good time. When you and your wingman go out, be sure to make this goal number one. It always works by making you seem like a fun, laid back guy, which then attracts women like bees to honey. You see having fun and enjoying yourself is magnetic and charismatic. People want to hang out with you. And the beauty of it is that you are having a great time even if you don’t meet any women.

So if you want to have a good time, meet women and come across as social, fun and charismatic, check into finding a wingman to guide you through the pick up process and maybe, as an added benefit, you will make new friend.

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